Emotions of a New Empty Nester

And in the blink of an eye he’s off to college. Quinn is my youngest and it’s hard to believe he’s old enough to head out to Grand Canyon University. I have such mixed emotions. My husband Jeff often says to me, “You don’t journal, you blog and post”. He’s right,  I do share my life with all of you and there is something cathartic for me in doing so.

When I say “new” I mean like the car just pulled down my driveway 5 minutes ago. I just have three things I want to share. 

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1. I started thinking back over the last years. I am thankful to say I have no real regrets. I was so far from a perfect mom, I called him a psychopath, I pinched him, I forgot him at home when he was only 5 (the list could go on and on) but I found peace when I thought of these words, “I did my best”. I messed up lots but my heart was always to show my children love and more importantly to remind them how loved they are by God.

2. I prayed this morning, “God, my #1 desire is for Quinn to know you better when he graduates.”  I don’t know how to explain it but I ‘heard’ God say, “I’m completely in agreement. That’s my #1 desire too”. I felt this great comfort when I was reminded that God and I are on the same side cheering Quinn on towards the same goal. Honestly, I’m not super concerned with his grades, his major, or even what mistakes he’ll make. I just want him to know God better and better. 

3. I’m super excited to have more time to spend with my amazing husband Jeff. We had so much fun before we had kids and I have no doubt that we’re going to continue to have loads of new adventures, great conversations and good times! I am thankful that even though the kids took up a good chunk of our time the last 20 years, we still made our relationship a priority.

II'm sure going to miss Quinn. He's been my side kick for many years. My husband travels quite a bit so it was so nice to have such a fun son to hang out with!

I’ve shed a ton of tears as I’ve been writing this but I feel better. Thanks for listening and I hope if you too are sending kids off to college or other destinations that my sharing helps in some way.

I'm not wearing sunglasses because it was super sunny. They might have been hiding a few tears! 

Quinn saying Good-bye to his faithful friend "Remi" was pretty tough to watch.   

Quinn saying Good-bye to his faithful friend "Remi" was pretty tough to watch. 

 

5 Simple Steps to Getting that Sweet Tooth Under Control!

 

1. Don't bring your favorite sweet treat into the house. If you know you can't resist the temptation of Ben & Jerry's Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Ice cream then don't bring it in your house. Most of the time that we overeat on sweets is in our own home so keep it free of temptations

2. Watch out for hidden sugars in your drinks. From Gatorade, Frapuccinos, Creamers, Ice tea... these drinks could be keeping your from your healthy weight. Read the labels and if your drink is sweetened cut back or cut it out. Of course we all know that sodas are bad for us and if you struggle to cut them out try drinking 2/3 carbonated water and 1/3 100% juice.

3. Eat fresh fruit. When you are craving something sweet try a handful of grapes or a juicy piece of watermelon. The natural sugar in juice is much better than the added sugar in other sweets. 

4. Eat Small Square of High Cocoa Dark Chocolate. 1" square of dark chocolate can do wonders to satisfy the sugar craving. Now beside to not eat the whole bar, just one small piece should do the trick

5. Exercise Self Control. Talk about how we need to believe we can say no and how fruit of the spirit is self control. 

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5 Simple Steps To A Healthy Weight


1. Pray - really, not just saying this because it's the "Christian thing" to say. Spend time talking with God about your health and ask Him to help you to make healthier choices. 1 Peter 5:7 tells us that God cares about all the things we care about so if you worry or care about your health talk to Him about it. 

2. Make a Plan. Write out what you will eat (or better yet, follow th menu plan that's included with our f4 Plan), schedule your workouts. Don't just say I'll workout 3 times this week. Write them in your calendar (put reminders in your phone too). Set weekly goals and post them where you will see them throughout your day.  

3. Drink Water - most of us walk around somewhat dehydrated. We often think we are hungry when we are actually just thirsty. Water also gives us a feeling of being full. Studies show that if you drink 8 ounces of water before a meal that you will eat less. 

4. Eat more vegetables. Vegetables have so many great nutrients and vitamins and are often low in calories. When planning your menu try and add as much color to it as you can. Add some Beets, Kale, Carrots, Brussel Sprouts to your diet. We just added to our f4 Plan  a great Brussel sprout  recipe that includes roasted grapes and goat cheese! Great way to get in loads of veggies is to make a big pot of veggie soup and have a bowl for a snack or part of your meal. 

5. Follow the 80/20 rule. 80% of the time I eat really healthy and 20% of the time I eat kind of healthy. I don't expect to always stick with only the healthiest of food choices and I don't feel like I've failed when I eat foods that aren't that healthy. Now I'm not ever going to go and eat a bunch of Oreos (sugar is the only thing I've pretty much eliminated from my diet) but I will eat a burger and fries without guilt but it's not something I'd do everyday. 

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Michelle is the founder of Faithful Workouts and The Fresh Table. She began her fitness career in 1984 and still loves to help people break free from fitness frustration and move towards a life that's full of physical and spiritual health. Michelle is married to Jeff and they have three children PLUS two lovable dogs and an ornery cat. 

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